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| Couples
counseling is a specialty of mine and I am very experienced and successful
in my work with couples. I work with straight, lesbian and gay couples
at various stages in their relationships (married, engaged, committed,
or at the beginning -- or end -- of a relationship). My couples work is
interactive and supportive, geared toward efficient problem-solving and
the working through of presenting issues by offering concrete, useable
interventions. |
| Duration
of couples therapy varies widely from short-term to long-term and everything
in-between. Some couples come in to work through a specific set of issues,
while others choose to stay in long-term work to deepen their intimacy
and tend the relationship via weekly or bi-monthly sessions. |
| I feel that
the therapeutic goal of couples therapy is to make myself obsolete, so
that there are two people in the relationship, not three. |
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| Specific
areas of expertise include (but are not limited to): |
- Relationship crossroads and transitions (moving in, getting engaged,
separating, etc)
- Improving communication
- Deepening intimacy, connection and trust
- Working through built up anger and disappointment
- Discussing difficult issues such as money and sex
- Working with issues that seem to never get resolved
- Healing from and making decisions following affairs and infidelities
- Managing the impact of work and other outside stresses on the relationship
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| My couples
work is influenced by the work of John Gottman, Ph.D. (author of Why
Marriages Succeed or Fail and Seven
Principals For Making Marriage Work), Harville Hendrix, Ph.D.
(author of Getting
the Love You Want and Giving
the Love That Heals), and Daniel Wile (author of After
the Fight), as well as years of extensive experience working with
couples. |
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